Anybody know why British spanking site with thousands of members just disappeared one day without trace? Another good contact one was spankme.uk.com which also vanished but now has a site message that says it will come back.

Lots on Fetlife as to why BS went. Mostly to do with the site upkeep. The site owner didn't update it for years. And messages to him were never answered. So it went without any warning. Much to the annoyance of those that were building a rapport (men & women) with each other. Some were also arranging to meet. All gone and no way to contact those you were arranging to meet or chat with.

 

As for spankme, unable to find out anything as to why?

Thanks for the info. Over several years I certainly had some great hands-on meets. T

tony watts said:

Thanks for the info. Over several years I certainly had some great hands-on meets. T

 

Very lucky you. Myself and lots of others not so lucky. No matter how many times I posted in the personals, whatever way I worded them, nothing. Sometimes a reply, but never followed through. Fetlife just as bad. Been on that site must be 5+ years, posted in the groups, nothing. Just advice about going munches and events. Yer, that's OK if you can get to the evening ones. But when coming home after what could have been a grueling day, last think want is go out socialising  

Yes BS did get worse and had I fewer contacts in last few years. spanknet and bdsmdate are now largely saturated with glam looking sex workers trying to get you to log on to other sites. I get a message about every two days and just  block them. Tried a couple of munches in London but not my scene mostly desperate looking men or couples joined at the hip. Still hoping spankme.uk will restart. 

Hey ho.

Yes to Spanknet with all the invites to view me here. I just reply piss off and block them. ITC-mag has genuine advertisers, but most are miles away in the north or midlands. Much too far from Thurrock in Essex. On Spankeefinder some more near in Chelmsford and Colchester. However, their fees are rather high. Plus I like spanking aftercare if you get my drift. And they clearly state not on offer. Although I have found two ladies that like an extra service following a session. One in Margate, the other in Bexhill. So visiting them is proving difficult due to distance.

Agree about munches. But don't think those that go and the organisers will agree. Plenty on the Fetlife site. And too tired to go anyway when come home from my school transport job. Just wanna have a beer and crash-out!

Following the sad demise of BS, I found spankees here, FL and Spanknet plus vanilla site Similar Worlds. But what’ do people think of DDLG sites ? Seems just for young people and most girls want to play under 9 , but I prefer Middles , ie up to 14.
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I find this confusing? 

What is DDLG sites?

What is most girls want to play under 9?

And what is middles up to 14?

Only me, or anyone else find this confusing? 

Dominant Daddy Little Girl is a popular new form of role play within a relationship. A Middle is a girl who likes to play a bit older. There are quite a few girls on this site who call themselves LittleS. Anyone know any Middles?

I Can get with the regression thing
I think the stress of everyday living frazzles everyone after a while...
To let yourself be in an environment where you have only the responsibility to answer to a single dominant and play the young innocent version of yourself or a character of your choice ...people get antsy about portraying child like regression but it's very obvious that it's not the same as abuse which is an abomination and it's simply a way of letting go and even maybe confessing to a few deep held thoughts!!....I played this once with a old gent I knew and it was deeply cathartic just having an emotional outpouring!

I have had some fun as a middle

I don’t know the exact terminology, but I believe a “middle” is someone, male or female, who identifies or wishes to regress to an age around adolescence rather than of a young child or infant. With regard to discipline and spanking, there’s a world of social and psychological difference between baby/little and middle. I’m sure anyone who has real experiences of spanking at both phases of life understands what I’m saying. I’m far more fascinated by the latter than the former.

Never heard of a middle. Certainly a little. Also tops, bottoms, doms, subs, and switches. So perhaps a middle is between little and large??

anyone from the northeast

Anyone know why Punishment Tree went dead? Lots of images there....

Uncle Bob said:

Anyone know why Punishment Tree went dead? Lots of images there....

Wow that’s a site I never heard of. After 22 years of being on the net I thought I looked at every spanking site and picture there was ever made!