I don't ever remember not being rivited by spankings. My very first spanking fanasy was when I was only three years old. I remember my mom putting me down for a nap. While I was laying in bed I started imagining a retelling of the story Jack and the Giant Beanstock. In my version, the Giant's wife put Jack across her big lap and spanked his bare bottom. That was 47 years ago and in all the years since then, my mind has never stopped inventing new stories.
Really young except I didn't realise there was a name for it until I was in my late teens. Just thought I was weird
Hello Friends, Like many others here, I had an interest in spanking from the earliest days of my recorded history. I seldom was spanked growing up (and when I was, it was more of the "grab-n-whack" variety and not the more ceremonious, "official" otk type spanking that many find appealing). I did not make any type of sexual connection until later on in life, but growing up, I instinctively knew it was something one should keep to one's self (and avoid getting them for real..at all costs). Still, I found myself become more and more interested in the subject and would find every opportunity to immerse myself in the topic as I'm sure many others here have as well (comics, tv, the dictionary).
Along the way, I started to experiment with self-spanking. (well not so much actual spanking, but more lying over the chair in my room and imagining what it would be like to be getting a "real" spanking. As time went on, It became quite clear the obvious sexual connection (to me)there was to spanking. I went to high school during the "tight, designer jeans" era and while I'm sure most other guys were having thoughts of more mainstream sex fantasies, I would often think about what it would be like to have a bottom clad in those jeans over my knee (and soon thereafter, having a turn over a denim-clad lap...ahh the benefits of being a switch).
I guess what I am taking a long time to say is...having no memorable "trigger", I firmly believe that spanking, for me anyway, is genetically encoded.
respectfully, max
I was seven or eight years old and was playing in the alley behind the row house i lived in. A heard a girl I went to school with crying through an open window of her home, a few doors down from me, and her father telling her to go up to her room. He'd be up soon to spank her.
In a few moments I herad her crying again from her room as she waited for him. A few more minutes and he arrived and scolded her some more then told her to pull down her pants. I heard her say "Not the belt!" I listened fascinated as she cried while the belt did it's deed on her obviously bare ass.
I ran right home and mastrubated reliving those wonderful sounds in my mind. From that day forth I was hooked on spanking. We hardly ever got spanked at home. About the time I was 20 I found a partner that shared my 'kink' and have never looked back.
From the age of about 5, or maybe 6.
My mother told me I was going to get the cane, on my bare bottom. I received this news with mixed emotions, because although I had never been caned before, I was already fascinated with bottoms and I wondered what it would be like to be spanked like that instead of on the hand. So she took me to my bedroom, took down my trousers and underpants and made me lie across the folded counterpane at the end of my bed.
Three things made my little penis begin to get excited (yes, even at that age!) - the act of presenting my bare bottom, the feel of the cool soft satin counterpane against my penis, and the thought of what was going to come. At the last minute I stood up and asked "how many are you going to give me?" "Six", replied my mother, and I resumed my presentation, bottom up, across the end of the bed.
She didn't cane me hard and she didn't give me all six, but I cried loudly and I think my poor mother got more of a fright than I did!
The memory of that experience has stayed with me ever since then.
Spankmanbare Williamson said:
"She didn't cane me hard and she didn't give me all six, but I cried loudly and I think my poor mother got more of a fright than I did!
The memory of that experience has stayed with me ever since then".
So, that reminds me of my intro at similar age, lol. How long did your mum continue to punish you like this?
When I was 11 years old, I found that my friends and I would talk about porn and where to find it exactly. I'd look myself but, I never wanted to get caught by my parents. One day, my older brother stayed the night and while my parents were away, I found him looking at porn so I finally had my chance to find out where I can find good porn. I asked him what site was it and if I could watch any. He agreed so, I looked at some and found that it was a good enough site to look at in the future.
One night, I checked out that site and downloaded clips to a very odd porn video. It was about a black lady who was wearing odd tie dye panties and she was being asked serious questions by what looked to be a principal. He was unhappy with how short her skirt was and spanked her for it and a feeling welled up inside different from the others porn clips I've seen. It felt so good, I got hooked on the idea of spanking and sought out it everywhere I went.
It was then, I was very sure that I was a spanko and couldn't find anything else that would make me as excited as spanking did. Very compelling to see these passions though in all aspects of my life.