Hi, I have been real life now over 35 years and need some others opinions on this.
At what age do you think a woman is considered too old for a spanking to benefit her?
I have 2 girls that I see but rarely and both are 50+... so I do not think age matters.
Daddy said:
Thank you Kate... Indeed it does depend on the woman...It is just difficult to find the right person,,, you agree?
Ive always had it pretty easy in that area. Well for spanking itself. For this particular form of it yes it can be hard.
The best way to effectively convey that message is to pretty much sell it like you would a car. Be confident when you talk about spanking and how much you value it's moral benefactors in your life. Try to find the good examples of others of have been spanked and how it has benefited them.
Most importantly though, you have to debunk the obvious question that they'll ask quickly and simply. After all, Spanking is a lifestyle for some people and they need that discipline in their lives. Show them all the wonderful things that spanking would do for them and the seed will be planted. It doesn't have to be right then that it clicks in their head. It might be a better idea to take things slowly. I've also heard people about explaining spanking to newbies in a more relaxed way.
There's a topic on here where the guy takes the girl out to coffee and talks about spanking many times before they actually come to an agreement so; if you want to do it right then, there's certainly no rush. I hope this helps you put it all into perspective.
I have never been accused of being a "mild" spanker women better? maybe if the male is a subbie.. otherwise I know better
I agree with Kate that it depends on the woman, and there may well not be a definitive answer. However, as a rule of thumb (and taking the need for consent as a given), I should say that if she is old enough to know better, and still believes that she deserves it, then it's panties down and bend over - no excuses, irrespective of age or maturity.