I tried to speak with a shrink about it ONCE and he just laughed. (Didn't go to him any more) I have ALWAYS loved spankiing.It excited me before I knew what excited was. I saw a newspaper add for new stain resistant clothes. Mom had about 5 kids with stained clothes line up for a spanking, with one over her knees. I knew I wanted to spank naughty people.
When I was about 9 or 10 there was a cartoon called "The good old days." One wek it featured a boy named Jimmy being taken to the wood shed with his dad scolding him. He was begging dad not to use the hard wood paddle on him. His friends were calling each other saying "Come quick! Jimmy's gona get a licking." The other boys were talking obout their spankings. One was saying "My pa made me pull down my pants!Then did I feel it."
I wanted to be Jimmy or the boy who pulled down his pants.
The next week it was about bad girls being spanked. It showed a girl being spanked by dad. I wanted to be dad.

I got mine when I was spanked by some slightly older cousins, just play spanking but it turned me on. Never looked back after that.

I was interested since I was a little boy, trying to play spanking games with the neighbor-girl! But my sexual interest in spanking was cemented when I got spanked by a female counselor at summer camp when I was 14.

When I was about 7 my mom, a high school teacher, sponsored a group called the Y teens. Our house was close to the high school and they used it to initiate the new girls. The last step in the initiation was a swat on bent over buttocks with the school paddle. From that point on I was turned on.

I tried on a pair of my wife's panties for fun and it turned me on and my wife playfully spanked me for it. I was so turned on that I came in her panties and got a real paddling for it. Never looked back! Must admit to be a bottoms man though so maybe it was a natural progression. Panties and spankings for me from that point on.

Since childhood, I grew up in the 60's and 70's when spanking was expected. I was switched and whipped, but saw many neighbor girls punished, and my older cousin get naked whippings in front of the hole family. I gave whippings to girlfriends from 15, and paddled the neighbor girl I babysat for even though she was only a few years younger. The mother set this up. So it was set in stone by the time I was 17. I've spanked everyone in my life since. Girlfriends, stepdaughter, wife, niece, employee, and loved every min. I bring it up as joke on any first encounter and judge the reaction. Your in or your out.

My folks were and are very much in a loving long term D/s M/f married relationship. When I got Daddy spankings as a kid they didn't mean to be drawing me into their world, but I am of their blood. And most of all I recognize a life without spankings is rather dull compared to with.

Susan said:
My folks were and are very much in a loving long term D/s M/f married relationship. When I got Daddy spankings as a kid they didn't mean to be drawing me into their world, but I am of their blood. And most of all I recognize a life without spankings is rather dull compared to with.

Well said and with courage, too, as these things are diffcult to reflect on and speak out about.

well ~ I think I know I was into this is when I was around 5 ? I think it is very excited to be spanked by someone daddy or teacher like . I don't know why .... maybe I just want some attentions (I didn't live with my parents very long they leave me in my grandparents ..... ) and latter I into BDSM as a role that receive everything .... I think I still trying to gain as much love as possible....

Probably since I noticed a the beautiful rear of a classmate at age 6 or 7

I was spanked growing up with a hand, brush or belt. I once spanked a friend at his house in his room. I was hoping his mom would catch us and she would spank me. I know he got the belt when he was spanked.

I was threatened with it often but never actually got spanked, so I only became curious about it and spanked myself.

At school, I was TERRIFIED of getting the cane (I never did!) But to overcome this, I started self-spanking with a horse-riding crop! To my unbelievable surprise, I ENJOYED the experience! and I have been 'Hooked' ever since!

I do NOT like being spanked. I think as babies and toddlers our bottoms were a place of comforting ... some of that stuck to some people.

Mali
Do you accept punishment as means of doing better in your daily life or do you resent the fact that you are punished.

Mali
Do you accept punishment as means of doing better in your daily life or do you resent the fact that you are punished.

Kate Lake said:

Ricardo Santacruz said:
Genes ...... but nothing supports my hypothesis ....

 

I have some anecdotal evidence. My whole immidiate family is into it in one way or another. 

Kate would you elaborate on your evidence.  What did you mean "into it one way or another"

I would also like to hear more detail. I know it runs in families. If it's learned or there's a natural predisposition is the question.

A bit of both, Steven.

I remember a cartoon that I watched as a kid...don't ask me who the characters were as that is long forgotten. But it had to deal with a wheel filled with different types of punishments...the wheel stopped on spanking and the fascination started. I haven't been the same since. You have to love cartoons :-)

Due to this topic being so similar to the topic titled, "When did you first realize that you were a spanko" I will add my reply from that to this topic as well. I'll also try to change a few things around and add a few things to keep relevance to this topic.

 

When I was eleven years old, I found that my friends and I would talk about porn and where to find it exactly. I'd look myself but, I never wanted to get caught by my parents. One day, my older brother stayed the night and while my parents were away, I found him looking at porn so I finally had my chance to find out where I can find good porn. I asked him what site he was looking at and if I could watch anything. He agreed so, I looked at some and found that it was a good enough site to look at in the future.

One night, I checked out that site and downloaded clips to a very odd porn video. It was about a black lady who was wearing odd tie dye panties and she was being asked serious questions by what looked to be a principal or a dean. He was unhappy with how short her skirt was and spanked her for it and a feeling welled up inside different from the others porn clips I've seen. It felt so good, I got hooked on the idea of spanking and sought out it everywhere I went.

It was then, I was very sure that I found my love for spanking and couldn't find anything else that would make me as excited as spanking had done for me. It's very compelling to see these passions though in all aspects of my life.

Mine goes back to early puberty. We had this gorgeous lady teacher. All the boys fantasised about her. Mine was her taking me into one of the offices. locking the door, then telling me to pull my trousers and pants down and bend down over her knee. Then I would imagine the lovely spanking she would give me.
I used to spank myself and imagine it was her doing it.
Thinking about it, I'd probably enjoy it just as much now.

I was spanked growing up, as was just about every kid in my neighborhood.  It was never anything violent or abusive and I knew it was because my parents loved and cared for me.  I never liked or fantasized about my own spankings, but I did develope an great interest in seeing others spanked.  I too closely followed every television program or comic that had spanking in it.  But I pretty much also knew early in life that I was a spanker and not a spankee.

 

The way my wife and I got started in the lifestyle is the reason I am a dedicated spanker today.  But I grew and changed a bit.  When I was young it was all about seeing a bare female bottom, bouncing and turning shades of pink and red as tears began to fill her eyes.  But Today, its all about me being the Provider, Protector....the loving, caring, guiding influence in her life. 

 

Basically what I'm saying is that even though the site of a bare female bottom, bouncing under my swats still excites me to some degree, I now get nothing out of it unless I KNOW I am providing what my partner wants/needs, and I am making a difference in her life.

That's sweet Thomas, yes I think that's what over the knee gals are really looking for, but do hold on to the sexy, because its important too.

Susan, while almost every spanking my wife and I shared was real discipline spankings, everyone was also very sexy as well!! And Thank you for your wonderful input.